How do you blog about a day so up and down with emotions? Tabitha orientation day is always a sobering reality check. Janne Ritskes spends a great deal of time on Cambodia's history and the impact of Pol Pot and the Khmer Rouge, so that volunteers have an in depth understanding of the trauma this country has experienced.
Follow this up with a visit to
Tuol Sleng, the Genocide Museum, and the Killing Fields. It's hard to fathom that people can be so evil and heartless, and yet we see it happening around us all the time. In the case of Cambodia, it was genocide against it's own people. Poor farmers taking revenge on city dwellers, under orders from a madman.
The second half of orientation focused on house building rules and etiquette. So much to absorb and so much to worry about. Cambodian culture is very different from ours. They are Bhuddist, which seems to come with a lot of superstition. (Okay, most religions have their superstitious ways, so maybe I should say they have different superstitions). Do not tell a mother is young child is pretty or handsome. The gods may become jealous of the child and take revenge. Do not pat kids on the head. Men and women must not touch each other in public, even those that are married. Don’t share food – western food will make them sick. Don’t give out any treats or gifts. You can’t single out and favour one child or person over another. It could even lead to fighting and jealousy among the villagers. When building, take regular water breaks, cool your body by dunking your head in water, and don’t whine. Focus and get the job done. Don’t mess it up so that Janne has to do damage control after we leave. Cambodian’s have a very poor image of westerners. They don’t have much of a reputation for helping…especially during the years of Khmer Rouge rule.
Mentally exhausted, we still had more work to do when we returned to the hotel. The food committee headed to the local grocery store for provisions. Picture 6 women trying to find familiar foods. Salt laden snacks like Pringles, Fritos, cashews and crackers, plus isotonic drinks, filled one trolley. Cold cuts, cheese slices, peanut butter and jam for lunch. The staff will bring us fresh baguettes and water. At the checkout the girl asked if we had a loyalty card. J
This evening we dined at Friends. Both Romdeng, where we dined the night before, and Friends are restaurants that train street kids. The charity is called Mithsamlanh (http://www.mithsamlanh.org). The food is great and very reasonably priced. You can get both western and khmer cuisine. They also have a shop that sells creative gifts from recycled materials.
Tuesday
Off to Kep in the south by the sea. It’s 150-ish km south of Phnom Penh, through stunning countryside. Rice crops are maturing at the end of the rainy season. Cows graze along the roadside or in fields. Children are cycling to and from school. Traffic gets lighter and lighter, the pace feels less frantic.
We take a detour to visit a well which turns out is one funded by our team. It’s exciting for everyone to meet the farmer and see his crop of sweet potatoes in the field. This well is 25 m deep. Further on we stop to see a pond. Ponds are used for clean water and irrigation in areas where the ground isn’t suitable for drilling a well.
Then it’s onward to Kep and our hotel. If we can find it. There’s lots of new development along the waterfront. The staff have never been to the Jasmine Valley Eco Lodge, and neither have I. A wee bit of panic ensues. Eventually the drivers find a motorcyclist in town who leads the way. Out of town and towards the mountains…the road gets narrower and more bumpy. But at least we see a sign. Jasmine Valley 1.5 km. It actually looked like 15 km, but in hindsight there must have been a decimal point missing much to my great relief. We kept on driving. I called the hotel again to make sure this trail was indeed the right one. Owen, the owner, assured me that we were on the right track and almost there. After what seemed like an eternity, we saw grass roofed huts and the parking area. With huge relief, we spilled out of our vans and headed to the reception area. I think there as a mixture of concern, excitement, trepidation, at least on my part. I booked it based on a great rating by Trip Advisor.
All is forgiven. The rooms are fantastic. Tree houses, thatched roof bungalows, a freshwater pool with fish to nibble on your toes. A welcome drink of cool lime juice. However, the decision is unanimous to stay here for dinner, and spare our drivers and the vans another run on the track.
Signing off for now. Jasmine Valley Eco Lodge uses solar power so they ask that we use the internet sparingly and the connection is rather slow. I'll add photos some other time. TTFN.